Stop setting the wrong goals
Stop setting the wrong goals
How to know when the goal you have set is the right one?
Use the eloquent art of articulation to create beautiful goals.
I ask women about their goals all the time. Often they will say a goal, but it’s not the goal they deeply want. So they end up going down the wrong path and burn out. I’ve been there. Once I figured out how to set an eloquent and fabulous goal it changed the game.
In my program women ask me to help them achieve a certain goal. Let’s say they want to improve their marriage.
They think it’s the marriage that is causing them so many problems. Their husband won’t do XY or Z or he did this or that. So we start to get to work on it. On the very first day when they join my program, I show them that the crux of their problem is not what they think it is. We quickly re-design their goal. The purpose is that they not only achieve the goal they came to me for but also make all their other life goals easier.
The reason I see errors this so quickly is that I’ve made the same mistakes before. For example, in marriage, when I wanted to improve my relationship I bought all the marriage books. I would talk to my husband thinking that if I simply had a sit-down conversation things would change. I would go out and do some reading or ask a friend. I even joined a group program. I would try everything I came across that seemed right. But it still wasn’t working. I was so frustrated.
Then I finally figured it out. I was focused on the wrong goal. It didn’t matter what I was doing because the focus was wrong. Once I set the correct goal, I stopped doing the wrong things and started to do the right things. It took the pressure off. I became more creative and had more fun in my marriage.
I’ve applied the same approach to all areas of my life. This same goes for dating, business, or any goal.
Too often women set inarticulate goals in business and relationships or whatever.
No - it’s not about making SMART goals. SMART goals are boring.
Women will go after the goal, but then suffer in the creation of the goal - assuming they ever get there. Or if they reach the goal, it takes so long and use so much effort that they burn out.
What’s the purpose of the goal if you suffer getting there?
Creating beautiful goals lies in a higher level of craftsmanship of the goal. Once you do this you articulate the goal with a new level of design.
Reaching it becomes almost effortless.
If you want support to create proper goals, I can help you. I use scientific rigor and my own personal experiences to help women achieve their goals with more luxury. Complete the inquiry form on www.leadinglavishly.com